Have you loved your Short Sale Buyer today???

I was recently commiserating with a colleague of mine about the state of the real estate industry and how short sales should be ceremoniously renamed "long" sales 'cause there ain't nothin' short about ‘em!

She shared a short anecdote with me that a seller had become uncooperative because a buyer wanted to do multiple inspections, show the home to visiting family members, etc. My colleague related that the seller had taken the position that the buyer was getting such a good deal on the home that they (the buyer) should just be happy with the deal and leave the seller alone.

I haven't had that occur (yet) and I can understand the seller’s point of view. No one wants to sell their property for less than market value, lose their down payment and any equity they once had, and have to take a small hit on their credit to do so. let's face it...there are hurt feelings involved.

As I ruminated on this story one night, I got to think that the seller should be grateful they have a buyer who's willing to take the home off their hands. Here's why:

1) The buyer has the courage to buy in a depreciating market. If Apple stock showed 4 years of cumulative losses, how eager would you be to throw your money in? Granted it doesn't seem like it can go much lower and in some places has reversed course AND we’re talking about mortar and bricks vs. paper stock, but you get the point. Buyers should be applauded for wading into the market rather than sitting on the sidelines.

2) Buyer’s have the patience to jump through all the hoops a short sale requires. I have counseled too many Buyers not to get their hopes up but inevitably all do at some point in the transaction. Having the saintly patience and perseverance to wait for some behemoth lender in a land far, far away to approve of a deal where they take an immediate loss should be rewarded, if just with the appreciation of the seller. Tom Petty must have been in a short sale deal when he prophetically wrote, “The waiting is the hardest part!”

3) The most import reason a seller should be appreciative of a short sale Buyer is that this Buyer is going to relieve you, Mr. Seller, of tens of thousands and possibly HUNDREDS of thousands of dollars of negative equity. When combined with the government’s non-taxation of that forgiven debt (for primary homes only), you have just witnessed one of the biggest get-out-of-jail-free, please-move-on-with-your life, water-under-the-bridge cards ever thrown a citizen’s way!

The moral of this anecdote is: don’t bite the hand that will get you out of your majorly upside down mortgage. In fact, put the Buyer on your holiday card list! The only thing a short sale Buyer is guilty of is having the ability to purchase a home in a down market…essentially, good timing.

Love your Buyer and they will love you back (and get you out of that mortgage you hate paying!).